These couple of weeks gw banyak acara ngumpul sama temen-
temen, most of them with their own little family.
Case #1
sama temen-temen SMA (member of disam) ngumpul di Midori - Japanese resto di daerah Dago.
Djoe with her 8 months old baby, Ethan, very cute and handsome.
Sin juga bawa Edward/ Pao- pao, 6 months old.
Secara dong those 2 babies jadi main topic di acara dinner qta.
But funny how i didn't feel too intimidated ( possibility karena ada
temen - Vonny yang juga masi single, not to mention she's quite
pretty too) tapi yang udah married juga ada yang belum punya
baby.
Lagian. . . . . punya baby itu susah, susah mesti ngurusnya, susah juga untuk maintain atau balancing with my own activity
( maksudnya bukan activity such as gawean, tp activity such as shoping, hangout, seeking my own pleasure . . ya ampun gimana mo punya baby klo masi childish gene. . . . i'm jez not quite ready for that . . . )
Case #2
sama temen-temen gereja - took place in Dora's house - there are Debora & her children ( Kay almost 3 y.o and baby Ken )
duh. . . . . . beberapa jam bersama mereka aja bisa bikin gw headache, padahal gw suka loh ngajarin Kay & have a chat with her. . . .
tapi kalo disuru ngurus seharian sih kayanya bisa depresi gw.
Kesimpulan :
menurut gw yah . . . alangkah baiknya menunggu waktu Tuhan . . .
sekarang gw jadinya ga terlalu sering kena episode 'krisis' lagi.
Toh kalo dipikir pikir, kenapa juga gw suka bandingin sama orang laen, Tuhan tau waktu yang tepat koq. . . . .
( and gives a perfect person for me , not that he's perfect but he could love an imperfect person like me. . . . . nah lo. . . . bingung kan)
Also there is people who jez ready to hav baby but somehow they can't.
I know must be hard for them. . . . . secara umur & jam biologis juga udah nearly injury time untuk reproduksi , tapi yah gimana. . . . . manusia bole berusaha tapi kan Tuhan yang menentukan.
( kata-kata klise tapi terbukti kebenarannya)
Besides. . . . . according to my opinion
(ya iyalah ini kan bLog gw.... emangnya mo ada pendapat sape lagi)
After we thru a marriage, having a baby is not a must.
Ya kalo punya juga suatu anugrah, tapi lebih penting lagi hav a lifetime partner. . . . toh bakal ada saatnya anak-anak dewasa & left us , stiL it will be beautiful having someone to grow old together . . . . . . .
[ koq jadi kaya kata-kata di bLog martin..... gak orisinil.... ]
